Elizabeth Howard
- Position
- Lady's Maid
- Years in President's House
- 1800 – 1801
- Legal Status
- Free Person
- Gender
- Female
- Race/Ethnicity
- White
- Presidency
- John Adams
- Biography
Elizabeth "Betsy" Howard was born on September 16, 1772, in Quincy Massachusetts.1 She became Abigail Adams’ preferred lady’s maid. Betsy accompanied Abigail Adams to the President’s House in Philadelphia in spring 1797, alongside fellow lady’s maids, Becky Tirrell and Betsy Marshall.2
When Abigail Adams moved into the White House in the fall of 1800, Betsy accompanied her, sleeping in her own room on the Ground Floor.3 Betsy married William Shipley on January 11, 1801, in Washington, D.C. A letter written by Abigail Adams indicates that the wedding likely took place at the White House, “Betsy Howard and her Lover have chosen to Signalize their Marriage by having it performed whilst in the Family of the President.” In March 1801, the couple returned to Quincy, Massachusetts at the end of John Adams’ presidency. They had four children.4 Betsy died on March 9, 1852, in Lawrence, Massachusetts and was buried in Hancock Cemetery.5
- “Betsey Hayward in the Massachusetts, U.S., Town and Vital Records, 1620-1988,” Ancestry, accessed June 5, 2025, https://www.ancestry.com/search/collections/2495/records/8180113?tid=&pid=&queryId=f9b827dd-1091-4950-975b-c4ed84e9f563&_phsrc=OuO238&_phstart=successSource.
- “Abigail Adams to John Adams, January 30, 1797,” Adams Family Correspondence, volume 11, 527-528, https://www.masshist.org/publications/adams-papers/index.php/view/ADMS-04-11-02-0274#sn=6.
- “Abigail Adams to Cotton Tufts, November 28, 1800,” Adams Family Correspondence, volume 14, 455, https://www.masshist.org/publications/adams-papers/index.php/view/ADMS-04-14-02-0207#sn=10.
- “Abigail Adams to Mary Smith Cranch, January 15, 1801,” Adams Family Correspondence, volume 14, 523, https://www.masshist.org/publications/adams-papers/index.php/view/ADMS-04-14-02-0237#sn=41; “William Smith Shaw to Abigail Adams,” March 2, 1801, Adams Family Correspondence, volume 15, 1, https://www.masshist.org/publications/adams-papers/index.php/view/ADMS-04-15-02-0001#sn=16; Waldo Chamberlain Sprague, Genealogies of the families of Braintree, Mass., 1640-1859: including the modern towns of Randolph & Holbrook and the city of Quincy, after the separation from Braintree in 1791-1793, (Boston, Massachusetts: New England Historical Genealogical Society, 2001), 1410-1411, https://digital-americanancestors-org.nehgs.idm.oclc.org/digital/collection/p15869coll33/id/24277.
- “Betsey Shepley in the U.S., Find a Grave Index 1600s-current,” Ancestry, accessed June 9, 2025, https://www.ancestry.com/search/collections/60525/records/38007611.
- Birthplace
- Quincy, Massachusetts, USA
- Hancock Cemetery
- Related Workers
- Elizabeth MarshallValets, Lady's Maids, and First Family Attendants, 1797 – 1801
- Rebecca TirrellValets, Lady's Maids, and First Family Attendants, 1797 – 1801
- William Shipleycirca 1800 – 1801
